Wednesday, October 5, 2016

Now What!?

So you just got engaged. She/he got down on one knee, the next 20 minutes was a blur, and all of a sudden you have a ring on your finger.

Awesome, right?

Getting engaged is one of those life events that you’ll remember forever, and kicks off the beginning of a crazy, amazing, and whirlwind time. But having never been engaged before, you might be asking yourself: What now?!


Well, there’s not one right answer — since this time is all about celebrating you and your fiancĂ©, you should definitely spend it in a way that’s meaningful to both of you!
Once the word is out and everyone knows about the engagement, the real fun starts!  Planning the wedding.  It is important to sit down and write out what you want for your wedding i.e. theme, location, entertainment, etc.
Coming from a DJ, I want to tell you that the entertainment is a very important part of any reception.  You want to be prepared and know how to pick a DJ.
First, start by researching candidates for your big day.  Attend bridal shows, check out websites, talk to friends/co-workers and narrow down to a few DJ's that fit your style.  
Once you have two or three in mind, setup a meeting.  A face to face meeting is generally the way to go, unless you are unable to do so, a phone meeting will work.  Get some questions ready pertaining to your specific requirements.  Some great questions I found from a simple search online.  These come from Brides.com
The Basics + Background Information
• Is my wedding date available? 
• How long have you been in business? 
• How many weddings have you done? How many weddings do you do in an average weekend?
• Do you perform at more than one event in a day?
• Will you be the DJ at our wedding?
• Have you done events at my wedding venue?
• What sets you apart from your competition?
If you like the answers and feel a connection with the DJ, I encourage you to book! Get details on the booking process.  Deposits, cancellation policies, other meetings/planning. Once your DJ is booked, away with the planning you go.  I realize that the entertainment is a small part of the overall planning, however, don't overlook it.  You will be glad you put a little time into it once the big day comes.
Touching base with your DJ before the wedding day is a good way to ensure every one is on the same page.
Have a blast at your reception and enjoy your day!
So congratulations and get to booking!
P.S. Check out Toonz DJ and the Red Lion Hotel October 14th for a Bridal show!